Did you ever think that Britney Spears’ lyrics would mimic your real life? “You see them girls in the club, they looking at us, they looking at us, they looking at us.” Yeah they are! Whenever you walk into a club or a bar, the girls in the room notice that you have entered whether they show it or not. They’re checking out your shoes, your hair, your outfit, your drink and who you’re with. And they’re making a judgement and showing it on their faces.
Girls have this uncanny ability to make you see what they think about you with one look. It could be ‘Oh those shoes are cool’ or ‘I hate your face’. Either way, girls are judging you everywhere you go. Women no longer dress to impress men but rather out dress other women. You can either take the judgmental looks to heart and let it affect your night or you can hold your head high and be proud of yourself, your shoes, your hair, your outfit, your drink and your friends and show these girls that their looks don’t do shit.
Every girl is defensive of her outfit and style and they don’t want you to threaten their individuality and their ability to stand out from the crowd with an outfit that is in style and looks good. However, that doesn’t mean that it gives them the right to openly judge what you’re wearing.
What’s even crazier is that when you go to the bathroom, girls are really nice and they compliment your outfit or your hair and you make friends. The bathroom is the safe zone. It’s safe, private and there are no guys around so there is no attention seeking.
Thus proving that girls feel threatened by other girls when it threatens the attention that they are receiving or when they feel their self esteem lower by seeing some one who they feel is more attractive. So pretty much, jealousy creates judgmental looks.
Just a tip girls, jealousy isn’t pretty and personality gets you further in life whereas your looks will just get you into bed.
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