Whether you realise it or not, boys, you are being judged just as much as girls in clubs. From your physical appearance, to your personality, to the way you treat a lady. Girls are always watching.
Although girls can come off as superficial sometimes, we also like to know that the guy we are interested in has a good personality, is a gentlemen and isn’t just using girls.
When you are in a club, we are checking you out by your physical appearance as clothes tell a lot about a guy. Looking like you have put effort into your outfits lets us know you take pride in yourself and you think first impressions are everything. Looking like a scrag, makes us believe you just came out to get drunk and take home the drunkest girl you can find.
Offering to buy just one girl a drink and not expecting anything in return tells us you are a gentlemen. You are interested in her and will do anything to get her attention. Buying ten girls a drink is sleazy and again makes us believe you just want a shag.
The way you talk to a girl is important too. If you act interested in her conversations and ask her questions about her life instead of staring at her breasts and or legs she will more than likely let you take her home.
The way you behave with your mates tells us a lot about your nature. Most girls (not all) are after the gentleman who will sweep her off her feet. This is usually the guy with a good group of mates who he has respect for. He would do anything for them, including leaving the club early to take one home if he’s sick. When girls pick up on this, they are automatically more interested in you.
The way you handle a fight tells us a lot about your personality. If you are the guy who goes and gets involved for no reason, then we think you are an idiot. If you help break it up and try to calm them down, we think of you as a hero.
When you just be yourself boys, us girls can already tell if we like you or not, so don’t be someone you’re not. But being a gentleman and being nice will get you a lot further than being an ass. Remember, we have eyes and ears everywhere, so you are always being watched.
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