The one thing many women can’t stand, but must endure when on the prowl for men are the many upon many sleazy men that are blatantly trying to get into the girl’s pants. Yes, a nightclub with sleazy guys is like McDonald’s with Big Macs, they’re a sure sight at either place. They give men a bad name and make life a lot harder for good blokes trying to meet a girl.
A lot of these guys are just dickheads, no question about that, but remember, a lot of them are just drunk and aren’t thinking straight. Some guys think you have to be direct with women when trying to hit on them; women say they love men with confidence after all. Nothing says confidence like being as direct to a girl as saying how he’d love to take her to bed that night and do nasty things to her. In fact, you could very well say these are the most confident men of them all. (Think about it, not just anyone can be ballsy enough to flat out say to a girl that he wants to fuck her in ten different ways.)
Though women are usually disgusted at such lewd behaviour from men (and fair enough too in most cases), the fact is if it weren’t for some dudes being forward, then the human race may very well have become extinct millenniums ago. In nature, there needs to be alpha males who can just go up to females, strut their stuff with ease and have said females want to get their fuck on. Usually sleazy dudes aren’t that good looking, but a lot of them are just trying to overcompensate with their confidence, whether it’s a put on to impress women or not. Even average and ugly dudes need to sow their wild oats.
I think when they try to seduce chicks (albeit poorly), there’s a miscommunication between the sexes. Women dress to impress when they go clubbing and love to flaunt their assets. So when a guy is so turned on by this gorgeous bird that’s flown into the club, he knows what he wants and will do anything to succeed with her. Guys going up to girls and flirting with them is perhaps the biggest compliment a guy can give a girl, in that he’s not beating around the bush and saying he wants her bad.
Having said all that, at their core, a lot of these guys are desperate and socially awkward, not realising how they’re doing the whole courting thing all wrong. Whether women today like to be romanced anymore is up for debate, but I’m pretty sure they still would like a bit of sweet talk before dirty talk.
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