Hans Christian Anderson had once quoted ‘when words fail, music speaks’, which can relate to the idea that women often express their thoughts and emotions through their music, or perhaps men might write lyrics about them instead. Either way, most women are quite complex and multifaceted in their own way, so it can take time and effort to fully understand their perspectives.
Things are going well; you have found an attractive man who is willing to get into bed with you. Perfect, right? But is this more than a one night stand, or should that be how it stays with this guy? Here is exactly how to tell.
There is a dilemma that most of us come across when we manage to score a guy/girl at a nightclub, bar or anywhere really: do we text them straight away after we get their number, or do we wait until the next day? Or should we go by the three-day rule, which basically means that you have to wait three days before texting them so that you don’t look too desperate?
Ah, Tinder. What a beautiful brain child of 21st century technology and lifestyle. Some consider it to be a tragic reflection of the new-age (non)dating sphere, and I suppose to some extent it is. Regardless of its less than traditional methods, no once can deny its popularity or efficiency. I mean, come on.
There is an unspoken assumption that men in nightclubs are devoid of any standards or taste when it comes to ‘picking up’. You could weigh three hundred pounds, have broken teeth, an eye patch, a facial scar, no hair and a penis nestled underneath your knickers and you’d still find a guy willing to go home with you.
There are some guys out there who make a lot of effort to present themselves well for a night out, but is that really what girls are interested in? If a guy comes and introduces himself to you, you are going to judge based on what he is wearing. When he starts to make conversation, you find that he is completely in love with himself. Attractive? I think not.
Okay, so most of us have been in that awkward position where we’re out at a nightclub or bar with one of our friends, and then next minute some random guy approaches her and they start talking. At that point, you’re just lingering there, trying not to interfere, but at the same time, you feel exactly like Dupree (from the movie You, Me And Dupree),
Dancing in a club is similar to a mating dance of a majestic Peacock. If you don’t have the moves, you probably won’t get the girl. Okay, maybe that’s a little overdramatic.
Girls are more subtle about their want to pick up, but this does not mean that they are not as keen as guys. It is obvious in the way she has styled her hair, planned her outfit, put on more makeup than usual and thought carefully about how drunk she intends to get. Unfortunately, we grew up in a world that believes it is the guys that have to work for the girl, but is this still the case?
It’s hard to say what clothes makes hot guys even hotter… When you’re out, it can usually come down to how they smell. You can dress a stinky guy up all you want, but he’s still going to be undesirable. However, there are a few things a guy can wear that will make them much more attractive than others…