Nightclubs are full of the evil temptations of the world, from getting drunk, drug use, acting violent, being an egotistical knob, and the big one, trying to get laid by a stranger. Though our better judgment tells us not to fool around if you’re already in a relationship and that we should just say no in the beautiful face of temptation, it’s often not that simple. (If it were, there may very well be no such thing as adultery).
Quite a few times I’ve seen people I knew were in relationships fool around with strangers they picked up in nightclubs, and some who even encouraged me to fool around (I can honestly say I haven’t though), and while I don’t necessarily think it’s the right thing to do, cheating is a fact of life. But why do people have this need to go out to clubs to pick up when they already have a partner they know and trust? (Though, ironically, their partner would no longer trust them if they knew what their boo’s wandering hands had been!).
Nightclubs have always had a bad name in society for its connotations with bashings and careless sex, and there’s a reason for that. So are nightclubs the best place to cheat if you’re feeling promiscuous? Bloody oath! They don’t have bad reps for nothing!
1. Clubs Are Crowded
With there being heaps of people around, it’s easy to lose your friends and you can roam around to do as you please, or who you please to be more exact. But if you’re confident your mates won’t dob on your to your partner, then there’s no real need to hide what you’re doing. The fact there’s a lot of people there means there’s heaps of potential hotties to choose from.
2. Random Hottie Isn’t Part Of Your Life
Not only do you not really know them (despite the fact you made out, a very intimate act), they are not your friend. They don’t know any of your friends or family either, or more importantly don’t know your partner. So you can get away with it. For all you know, they’re cheating on their partner too, so this sense of anonymity works in their favour too.
3. Atmosphere
The party atmosphere will put most people in a great mood, and it kind of gives you a sense of adventure, heading into uncharted territory. It also makes you not think about reality or any potential consequences for your actions, so you figure “YOLO” and just go for it.
4. You’re (Probably) Drunk
You’re too drunk to really think about the consequences, you like what you see, and it’ll let you do what you really want to do but what you wouldn’t even dare dream of doing sober.
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