1. Confidence
We all dream of a guy who knows exactly who he is. A guy with confidence is always a guy with a date at the club, but can he be the type of guy who is ready to settle down… Yes, he can. In order to move forward in a relationship, a guy must have confidence in himself. He has to be approachable, and most of all, he has to approach you. The same goes for ladies; confidence is the key.
2. Character
The perfect partner at a nightclub can be a bit hard to find, because you can’t get to know someone in a single night. However, a great guy has character and shows that he is different from the rest of the guys in a nightclub. It could be something simple, like holding your hand or making you laugh before he asks you if you want a drink. He just makes a difference in your night.
3. Appearance
It is said that looks are nine tenths of the law, but it’s not looks that matter. Appearance refers to how well the guy is dressed and how he presents himself. Personally, I think that tank tops and thongs are a turn-off in a club. A well-dressed guy in jeans and a t-shirt is not that uncommon, but a well-dressed guy is marriage material.
4. Humour
In any relationship, there has to be happiness. If he doesn’t have a sense of humour, then he will never be able to make you laugh until you can’t breathe. He won’t get your jokes and he may never understand your friends. It is said that the way to a girl’s heart is through laughter. Making you smile is a necessity. If he makes you laugh over the loud beats at the club, he just might be worth a second look.
5. Charm
A lot of women believe that a guy who charms women is a player. Most of the time this is correct, but a guy who charms a woman is boyfriend material. He may not be good at charming you and sweeping you off your feet. He may not be a romantic, but he has to at least be willing to try and charm you.
6. Intelligence
He doesn’t have to be a genius, but a little common sense and understanding is a must for a long term relationship. There is a difference between a smarty pants and a smart aleck, because being too cheeky can sometimes be a bad thing. At the same time, Mr Right is not a complete drop out, but a guy with a little intelligence is great. In the end, the smart ones can support a family with you.
7. Chivalry
Every lady needs a gentleman. Opening the door and pulling the chair out to sit down on are great, because a little courtesy goes a long way. A guy has to believe that he can intrigue you and that you are a lady, so being lady-like and respectable is necessary. If he is going to treat you like a lady, then you have to act like a lady, even in the nightclubs.
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