Here is one of those tricky questions that can cause arguments in relationships and friendships: can people who are in a relationship still have one or more good friends of the opposite sex? I mean, most people would say why not, but that answer tends to blur once you’re actually in a relationship and have to deal with your boyfriend hanging out with his girl mates (or vice versa).
Well well well, here is a question that can fire up a hell of a debate. Can people in relationships still go out clubbing, or do they have to avoid the party atmosphere now that they’re in a relationship?
Nightclubbing is meant to be a fun outing every week for young adult to go out and let their hair down and have fun. However, nightclubs are commonly seen as places to meet people or ‘hook-up’ with someone new. Does this mean that if you are in a relationship that clubbing could be off limits? Or should you club as a couple?
Crossing the unwritten rule and forbidden barrier of ‘hooking up’ with a friend’s ex, may result in some serious repercussions by the perpetrator. This is not a topic to be considered in black and white, nor is this a decision that should be made quickly. Dating, let only sleeping with a friend’s ex, could result in the termination of a friendship.
When you’re out hitting the clubs, there is nothing worse than getting followed around by a guy that is nice, but way too keen. If you are not interested in him and you try to drop a few hints but nothing works, than there is a full-proof way to ensure that you don’t waste your night dodging a guy. This method is also a great way to deter guys from you when you are in a relationship and just trying to have a good night out with the girls.
A casual conversation may seem effortless with the girls and the topics are very generic, but when it comes to the guys, having a chat at the pub, there is a lot more depth to their conversations.
Have you ever been living it up in a club or a party and you’re looking for someone to take home? Most people there are probably waaay too drunk, or you’re not drunk enough to think they’re attractive. Then you spot your ex. Eh, it’s been a while, they’re still looking good, they’re into it. Why not right?
The question everyone asks after a night out is what did I do last night? In the case of hooking up with someone, there are so many more questions that need to be answered.
You are worried about what the socially acceptable amount of time is to contact your hook up? Let me put this into perspective for you, you have just, shamelessly, made out with this person in a very public display of affection possibly without knowing their name. If you were really on your game, maybe you went home with them.
Sometimes it’s hard when opposites attract in relationships. You like to go out and drink and have fun and your partner isn’t into that. It might not even be opposites, it might be that your partner is working or that they’re sick or even that they’ve grown out of their clubbing phase and you’re still in the midst of it.