You are worried about what the socially acceptable amount of time is to contact your hook up? Let me put this into perspective for you, you have just, shamelessly, made out with this person in a very public display of affection possibly without knowing their name. If you were really on your game, maybe you went home with them. And woke up in the morning next to them. Sober. THEY KNOW YOU LIKE THEM. Calling them the next day is not even a big deal. Calling, or okay texting, someone is a commonplace activity that normal people do all the time. People don’t eat each others’ faces and maybe cop a feel with 50+ strangers ogling them in real, grown up, normal person life.
But okay, in the spirit of no stupid questions, let’s think about this. You have already done the legwork that would usually occur after the initial phone conversation and you already have their phone number. The aim of the game at this point is to prove to the person that you trust your beer goggles and that they should trust theirs because you are actually normal and charming. So, then, I guess, wait until you feel normal and charming. Don’t wait till the next weekend when you are drunk and lonely because they will know.
If you are calling them to ask them what they want for dinner when they come over to meet your parents, you should wait till never. If you are calling to tell them you think they are your soul mate and you felt a deep connection with them, that is beyond your capacity of speech so you made them a collage, you should wait till you’ve been on at least a few dates and know their favourite colour and stuff.
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