Guys find that having a mate to help facilitate pick-ups increases their chances of success. A ‘wingman’ is someone who helps a friend to screen potential partners and attract desirable ones. The term originates from aviation terminology referring to “tandem aerial combat scenarios” according to the ever reliable Wikipedia. A wingman helps boost a prospector’s confidence and makes them look good to the potential partner. If executed correctly, a wingman’s job is appreciated as heroism. But what might not meet as much recognition is the role of winggirls.
I feel that if a study was conducted (of heterosexual picking up) the success of winggirls would be relatively greater than that of wingmen. I believe this because women trust random women more than men and the competitive threat of an unintentional pick up of a mark by the wingman himself is eradicated. Winggirls can penetrate the mark better without compromising the end goal.
So girls, it is time to help your guy friends find a partner and prevail where wingmen before you have failed. Here’s how to be an awesome winggirl:
Act like you are slightly attracted to the prospector: If you act like your guy friend is desirable then it’ll help other women find him so as well. You can support this with little side comments to the mark like “how pretty are his eyes”.
Make best friends with the girl then slowly introduce the guy, as though it is an aside: A great place to make drinking friends is in the girls toilets. It’s easy to get talking simply say you love their outfit, jewelry, etc, or butt in on a conversation they are already having as though you relate. Once you have established a relationship based on mutual tastes, it will be easy to win their trust on matters such as prospective males. Now, casually introduce them to your guy friend.
Do your research, find common ground or conflict: Make sure you have found out something that the girl has in common with your friend then bring it up so the two of them can discuss. For example: “Yes that was a good movie, Matt was saying earlier how it was better than the original. What was it you said about it, Matt?” Once the conversation gains some momentum, excuse yourself for some believable reason. Remember, opposites attract, so introducing a topic they can argue over, as long as it isn’t serious, can help create chemistry as well.
Give your male friend mark specific advice: Don’t just tell him moves and lines that ‘all girls’ love. These are usually false. Use your knowledge of the girl to help your friend formulate appropriate compliments.
Dance with the mark: Start dancing with your new best friend then get the prospector to join in. Dance with him a bit then excuse yourself for a believable reason.
Be honest-ish: Girls can get away with saying to the mark that the prospector is interested. This same information delivered by a male could be treated with suspicion. Men are often associated with noncommittal intentions. You should have gained her trust enough that she believes you have her best interest in mind. Also, if the above have been played out properly, she should not expect it. She’ll be thinking, “Wow, this new great friend that I made has a cool and hot guy friend who is interested in me?!”.
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