Here is one of those tricky questions that can cause arguments in relationships and friendships: can people who are in a relationship still have one or more good friends of the opposite sex? I mean, most people would say why not, but that answer tends to blur once you’re actually in a relationship and have to deal with your boyfriend hanging out with his girl mates (or vice versa).
Things are going well; you have found an attractive man who is willing to get into bed with you. Perfect, right? But is this more than a one night stand, or should that be how it stays with this guy? Here is exactly how to tell.
Ah, Tinder. What a beautiful brain child of 21st century technology and lifestyle. Some consider it to be a tragic reflection of the new-age (non)dating sphere, and I suppose to some extent it is. Regardless of its less than traditional methods, no once can deny its popularity or efficiency. I mean, come on.
There is an unspoken assumption that men in nightclubs are devoid of any standards or taste when it comes to ‘picking up’. You could weigh three hundred pounds, have broken teeth, an eye patch, a facial scar, no hair and a penis nestled underneath your knickers and you’d still find a guy willing to go home with you.
Girls are more subtle about their want to pick up, but this does not mean that they are not as keen as guys. It is obvious in the way she has styled her hair, planned her outfit, put on more makeup than usual and thought carefully about how drunk she intends to get. Unfortunately, we grew up in a world that believes it is the guys that have to work for the girl, but is this still the case?
It’s hard to say what clothes makes hot guys even hotter… When you’re out, it can usually come down to how they smell. You can dress a stinky guy up all you want, but he’s still going to be undesirable. However, there are a few things a guy can wear that will make them much more attractive than others…
So you’re at the club and you’re chatting away with a really hot girl that you just can’t keep your eyes off. You two have really hit it off and can’t help but smile at one another constantly. Hell, you may even be holding hands, or full on kissing. There’s the unspoken issue of making the next move to see if anything else will happen. Then it happens: the girl will ask you to come home with her.
There are a few automatic charm points that are awarded for some of the simplest things when it comes to attracting the female. These things are already used by some of the male gender, allowing for a one up on their fellow man. Here’s a few tips to even the playing field a little.
Being mortal , as opposed to photogenic gods like David Beckham, can create unnecessary work. Like the next day race to untag yourself and make threatening comments towards the removal of photos on Facebook, as well as time spent on coming up with a backstory to better explain your appearance in the image. Here’s a few “safe” poses to promote you to demi-god.
Whether you realise it or not, boys, you are being judged just as much as girls in clubs. From your physical appearance, to your personality, to the way you treat a lady. Girls are always watching.