Things are going well; you have found an attractive man who is willing to get into bed with you. Perfect, right? But is this more than a one night stand, or should that be how it stays with this guy? Here is exactly how to tell.
1. What He Calls You
Does he refer to you by your name, or are you babe/baby? If a guy is willing to make the effort to get to know your name, he is more than a one night stand. Often you will find the guys that go that extra step for you, so why not go the extra step for them. I am not saying that this is a big sign that he is interested in taking the relationship further, but at least he is showing interest in you as a person.
A guy’s appearance is an easy way for you to pick what it is he wants. How is he dressed? What is his physical appearance is like? A guy wearing a tight fit singlet and shorts/jeans showing off every muscle in his body is an automatic sign of a no go. Clearly he is more in love with himself and his appearance to care about a relationship at this point in his life, so just enjoy this one and let him go in the morning.
3. How He Treats You
Is he nice? Does he respect you? How did he treat you afterwards? These are all important questions to ask yourself. Firstly, was he genuinely nice to you or was he focusing more on acting nice? It sounds complicated, but you can easily tell.
4. How He Got You Into Bed In The First Place
This one is important. The number one thing to look at is, was his main intention to get you into bed? If this was not his first thought, he is already a keeper. There is nothing attractive about a guy who intends to get you into bed. If he is just trying to get to know you and well one thing leads to another, he is somebody worth pursuing.
5. Overall Outcome Of The Night
Quick and easy. Was it good, or was it bad? Can you see yourself with this person or is he just a one night stand?