There are some guys out there who make a lot of effort to present themselves well for a night out, but is that really what girls are interested in? If a guy comes and introduces himself to you, you are going to judge based on what he is wearing. When he starts to make conversation, you find that he is completely in love with himself. Attractive? I think not.
Some girls are totally cool with hooking up with a guy dressed like a sexy almost famous musician, but as soon as he opens his mouth he has the brains of a 13-year-old boy who thinks he is super trendy. Do guys really think that turns a girl on? It is more like an automatic turn off and the girl is already trying to find her escape route. Although it is important for a guy to dress well, it is not worth it if he is a complete tool.
It can be just as hard for men as it is for women to know what to wear, and that is totally fine. Do not get me wrong though, it is possible to find a well-dressed guy with a friendly personality, if you happen to find one of them please let me know where you found him. In modern society, we often get so caught up in the way we look that we forget about what really matters, which is our attitude towards life and other people.
I once met a well-dressed guy in town and he was a really unique person; a few dates later, I began to notice that he had a different attitude depending on what he was wearing. When he was dressed up ready to go out for a fancy dinner, he was more interested in talking about himself and all the achievements he has made so far in his life. The good part was when he came over to just hang out wearing casual attire; he was suddenly interested in talking about more things to do with my life and how his life could potentially intertwine with mine. Confusing, right?
We spend a lot of our time concentrating on the way we dress rather than who we are. I guess where I am going with this is; for the girls, do not let yourself fall for a nicely dressed guy before you get to have a proper conversation with him first. A guy with a sense of style is great, but if he starts mucking around like a puppy or acting like an idiot with his mates, it is a total no go. For the guys, every girl loves a positive attitude and a well-dressed man, so do not let your clothes get the best of you. It is okay to be confident, but do not let yourself get too arrogant.
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