A casual conversation may seem effortless with the girls and the topics are very generic, but when it comes to the guys, having a chat at the pub, there is a lot more depth to their conversations.
For a start, a bar or pub can be a great alternative to the clubbing scene, or even a starting off destination. There are cheap drinks and you are able to have a good conversation or two. Boys tend to enjoy drinking a few beers and talking about things that are important to them, especially if it is about girls. It doesn’t matter if they are in a relationship or if they are single, boys and girls are social beings that love to discuss each other. It is a part of the human instinct to talk, laugh and cry and love brings that, so it is naturally a topic of discussion.
The mass of guys believe that the female mind is one of the most complicated things in the world and most of their discussions can be consumed by this topic. However, sports and the news seem to overpower a lot of the guy’s conversations.
In a personal experience, I recently hung out with some friends from university and the dynamics of the group were split as the girls and some guys headed for the clubs and some guys and I settled for drinks at the bar. It was an interesting evening to see clubbing and the nightlife from a guy’s perspective. They wanted to pull apart the functions of my mind as a female and know why girls act the way they do, so I have devised a very short list to help all you girls out there understand the so-called ‘female mind’.
In other words… Just go with it!
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