Hey there reader, your daddy must have been a thief to steal all those stars from the sky to put in your eyes.
Don’t blow an opener like I did above. Amazingly, I have heard this line before and the guy who said it was not kidding. I mean seriously, why do guys think lame pick up lines work? They are material for the stand up comics, nobody seriously hooks up with a girl using any of the ones you may have heard.
What’s the secret then? What words are magic? You may have heard this before, but the sound of your own name is the one word that you respond to the most.
So, first things first. Learn the girl’s name and use it when addressing her. This is probably the most important thing.
Opening up a conversation is essential for any PUA (Pick Up Artist). You do wanna become a PUG (Pick Up Guru), don’t you? Well, keep reading.
So here’s a sampling of what I’ve personally experienced and what’s worked on me. If it’s worked on me, you can pretty much bet that it will work on other girls. I’m pretty jaded, but I will bite when the bait is good.
1) Ask her opinion on something
You can ask her opinion on something playful and sexy. For example, here’s how it might flow:
“Can I get your opinion on something? The other night out group of friends were all saying how we met each other, anyway, a girl who’s dating my mate said she was seeing someone else when they first started dating. My mate was so upset, he broke up with her. Do you think that’s extreme?”.
2) Pay her a compliment without paying her a compliment
This one requires a bit of tact and is not easy to pull of initially. You may have to think about ways to approach her without making her feel uncomfortable or being confrontational. As Chris Rock says in his stand-up routine, every time a guy pays a girl a compliment, all the girl hears is ‘Would you like some dick?’. Don’t be that guy.
So here’s an example of a good compliment I’ve heard, ”You seem confident enough to hear a sincere compliment”. Now who’s going to say no to that?
3) Express concern for your surroundings or her friends
By showing your caring side in an opener, you’re getting way ahead in the game on your first verbal exchange with her. This is an amazing tip. Try out something like, “Hey, just saw your friend being harassed by that guy over there, is she OK?”.
So that’s all I’ve got for starters. If you’ve got some openers, show you care and share.